This is an interesting posting from a newsletter I get from a cool dude who knows a thing or two about dating beautiful women. Check it out...and see if your convo with HOT chicks is anything like this guys."Today I met an ex-girlfriend (and now good friend and occasional date) for lunch at an Indian buffet. This is a woman who has commented in the past that she didn't like my cocky side (either I wasn't doing it right, or she was lying), so I was looking for a good opportunity to segue into a routine and see how it affected her.
"At one point she complained that the bread was cold, and that I should go get some fresh stuff...
GUY: What's in it for me? [unoriginal line]
HER:I'll stay and finish lunch at your table. Otherwise, I'll go get the bread and sit over there by myself [great answer!].
GUY: Well, that'd be embarrassing.
HER: Yup.
GUY: Everyone in the restaurant would think that you had to move because you've got real bad gas.
And it went from there. You could see her eyes getting brighter throughout the conversation, and it ended with:
HER: Wow, you're feisty today...
GUY: Yeah, so...?
HER: So, it's really... attractive.
GUY [laughing]: Boy, you're easy today...
That's a confession straight from the source: feisty = attractive. And she went on to demonstrate her attraction after lunch in an unusually aggressive manner. I think everything you're saying is capital-T Truth, brother.
I was discussing this with an insightful female friend, and she agreed with everything you say, and added that women don't want to be our mothers... and if we treat them like we treat our mothers (i.e. act COWARDLY), what does that say?
C.K. >>>
MY COMMENTS: Amen, brother. Amen. Feisty, Sassy, Cheeky, Ballsy... = ATTRACTION. Be a man and be confident.
Chris B.
