How to Speak to Women

Sometimes guys get this bizarre predicament of not knowing what to say to women. It literally makes me cringe when I see a guy get nervous just because he is speaking with a woman.

It’s just silly to be having these problems when there is so much help out there to assist you along the way. Women are typically just as apprehensive when it comes to talking to guys but they can hide it better than the average dude... But I will outline the big secret in how to speak to women anytime.

There are two parts to this secret; the first is not to care too much. Most guys look at each woman who smiles at them as the woman of their dreams who was meant for them. So right away you care very deeply and this will mess you up thoroughly.

The second secret is to just talk freely with her. Whatever is on your mind be sure to say it. This will get you past a lot of fear and uneasy behavior and allow you to be free spirited in your speech.

Go ahead get out there… the women are waiting for a man to talk to; and not a 5^th grader!

Chris Bondae

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Online Dating Secrets

If you're going to go online dating and leave the regular social scene; I want to tell you not to feel bad, or weird that you're doing that.  It's perfectly normal to be a lazy dater.  Let me give you a few entry level online dating secrets.  

Trust me there are a host of lazy beautiful women who stay online and wait for a confident good looking guy to talk to them; because of all the losers who approach them in public.

So what do you want to do; and how do you do it?  I'd start out in the practice field, which is craigslist.  Go to your city or if you really want to practice go to another city and just hit up the personals.  Other places you could go to for free are the myspaces, facebooks, and other social networks that do have a section for dating.

From there just greet women that you want to talk to; but keep in mind that you aren't thirsting to date at this point; you're just getting your feet wet.  If someone responds, keep talking to them and keep track of what made each woman respond and what made them keep talking to you.  You will probably do this without pictures but you should try with both (with and without your pic and with and without the woman's pic).

This will help you get your verbal game going.  And since it's over the Internet you can talk as slow as you need to be sure of saying the right thing.  The important thing is to keep track of what got you responses so you can sharpen that part of the process.  Peace, rock on and get to practicing.

Chris Bondae