This is a very milk topic (milk = easy to eat and digest). Think of all the ways men go about to get a woman attention...go ahead.What did you get? Honking the horn (if he's in a car) - ok, yelling, whistling, saying a corny line - ok keep'em coming, blurting a funny line, smiling at her, acting all weird - yep the usual, what else...yeah you in the back? Telling her she dropped something...ok the ole trick her into talking - giving her a compliment. Good.
Now I want you to throw all of that out and never use any of those again, if you're just trying to get her attention! I know, that's a strong statement - you'll understand soon. Did you throw it out? Good. Now I coach men how to meet and date beautiful women for the sole purpose of them eventually marrying and staying married to the woman they chose.
I'm pretty successful at it as well. So I want you to throw your old ideas out and let's sit down and play chess.
To get a woman's attention you have to set her up. Let's say you work in an office and you see this drop dead gorgeous chick. You don't know anything about her, so what now?
You ask your buddies - nothing! You look her up - nothing!
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What now?
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It's called behavior pattern. Keep note on where you see her at often. If she's in the kitchen getting water, meet her there one day as you're going to get water.
If she visits another co-workers desk often, go introduce yourself to that co-worker and become their best friend - so they can praise you in front of the gorgeous chick. "I don't know Chris, this sounds sneaky, and deceptive?"
I'll be frank with you...it is. But how else are you going to meet her. And a better question is what will you say besides, "hello - my name is Hakeem (with a big cheesy smile on your face)."
-After you coincidentally run into her at the water cooler, you can introduce yourself and ask her what department she works in. Make fun of the department, "oh over there where they have nothing to do," just be creative so she remembers you.
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Then go about your business. You have solidified who you are and found out who she is - and if there isn't a big PHAT rock on her left hand you can start chipping away at setting up a date.
laterz
Chris Bondae
