Office Romance

If you want to date beautiful women; you should see if you have any at your place of employment.  Now if you do; don't give her the attention that all the other normal losers do.  They want to wine and dine her; smile at her, take her out, do her favors, all that garbage that has never worked for them yet they still try it.

You need to take a different route.  Introduce yourself, and get to know her.  Don't smile much; you want to make it appear that every time you speak to her it's all business.  Yet when you're with other not so pretty female co-workers have a ball, smile and act like the losers act to the pretty girl or girls.

When you speak with her, give her a hard time; joke with her like you would a baby sister.  Don't ask her out;  but rather ask her to do stuff for you like get you some water from the water cooler; or buy you lunch that you'll pay her back tomorrow.  What you'll soon find is a woman trying to get you to be like the rest of the losers who praise her every move.

For some odd reason; it works like a charm, every time.

Chris Bondae

Making Up with your Ex

Making up with your Ex

You had a bad break up and you checked to see if the grass was greener on the other side of the street and found that it wasn’t and isn’t. So now you want to get back with the love of your life or your ex and patch the pieces back together.

This is a more difficult task than you may think. For guys that want to get back with their ex; here are the steps and the general guidelines you must follow.

If it’s been a few days since the break up; give a while to thicken. Maybe send an email just to see how she is coping. No phone contact yet. Absence still does make the heart grow fonder. So take a vacation from your ex; just contact via emails, even if she calls you.

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Absence Makes the Heart

I got a question from a reader who asked; "how do I get a girl to really miss me?" I had to start laughing because to be missed you have to be away. So I told him stay away from whom ever you want to miss you. Don't be reachable or accessible. It's kind of a simple question and answer; but sometimes when we are trying to do something we get caught up in tactics and methods.

Always remember to keep it ultra-simple. If you want someone to miss you, stay out of sight. What you'll notice with beautiful women is that they will will call you, and feel so much happier to see you when you do see them. The larger gap in time, the more people appreciate you.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder. Try it sometime. Take care,


Chris Bondae

Slighty Fiesty while Dating for Attraction

This is an interesting posting from a newsletter I get from a cool dude who knows a thing or two about dating beautiful women. Check it out...and see if your convo with HOT chicks is anything like this guys.

"Today I met an ex-girlfriend (and now good friend and occasional date) for lunch at an Indian buffet. This is a woman who has commented in the past that she didn't like my cocky side (either I wasn't doing it right, or she was lying), so I was looking for a good opportunity to segue into a routine and see how it affected her.

"At one point she complained that the bread was cold, and that I should go get some fresh stuff...

GUY: What's in it for me? [unoriginal line]

HER:I'll stay and finish lunch at your table. Otherwise, I'll go get the bread and sit over there by myself [great answer!].

GUY: Well, that'd be embarrassing.

HER: Yup.

GUY: Everyone in the restaurant would think that you had to move because you've got real bad gas.

And it went from there. You could see her eyes getting brighter throughout the conversation, and it ended with:

HER: Wow, you're feisty today...

GUY: Yeah, so...?

HER: So, it's really... attractive.

GUY [laughing]: Boy, you're easy today...

That's a confession straight from the source: feisty = attractive. And she went on to demonstrate her attraction after lunch in an unusually aggressive manner. I think everything you're saying is capital-T Truth, brother.

I was discussing this with an insightful female friend, and she agreed with everything you say, and added that women don't want to be our mothers... and if we treat them like we treat our mothers (i.e. act COWARDLY), what does that say?

C.K. >>>

MY COMMENTS: Amen, brother. Amen. Feisty, Sassy, Cheeky, Ballsy... = ATTRACTION. Be a man and be confident.

Chris B.

How to get a woman's attention!

This is a very milk topic (milk = easy to eat and digest). Think of all the ways men go about to get a woman attention...go ahead.




What did you get? Honking the horn (if he's in a car) - ok, yelling, whistling, saying a corny line - ok keep'em coming, blurting a funny line, smiling at her, acting all weird - yep the usual, what else...yeah you in the back? Telling her she dropped something...ok the ole trick her into talking - giving her a compliment. Good.



Now I want you to throw all of that out and never use any of those again, if you're just trying to get her attention! I know, that's a strong statement - you'll understand soon. Did you throw it out? Good. Now I coach men how to meet and date beautiful women for the sole purpose of them eventually marrying and staying married to the woman they chose.



I'm pretty successful at it as well. So I want you to throw your old ideas out and let's sit down and play chess.



To get a woman's attention you have to set her up. Let's say you work in an office and you see this drop dead gorgeous chick. You don't know anything about her, so what now?



You ask your buddies - nothing! You look her up - nothing!


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It's called behavior pattern. Keep note on where you see her at often. If she's in the kitchen getting water, meet her there one day as you're going to get water.



If she visits another co-workers desk often, go introduce yourself to that co-worker and become their best friend - so they can praise you in front of the gorgeous chick. "I don't know Chris, this sounds sneaky, and deceptive?"



I'll be frank with you...it is. But how else are you going to meet her. And a better question is what will you say besides, "hello - my name is Hakeem (with a big cheesy smile on your face)."



-After you coincidentally run into her at the water cooler, you can introduce yourself and ask her what department she works in. Make fun of the department, "oh over there where they have nothing to do," just be creative so she remembers you.


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Then go about your business. You have solidified who you are and found out who she is - and if there isn't a big PHAT rock on her left hand you can start chipping away at setting up a date.






laterz

Chris Bondae

"You JERK!"

You know you've made it when a woman calls you a jerk. First thing you are clearly out of is her "friend" column. If you are in the friend column you have no chance with her. But if you are out of there; then you stand a chance to get with her.

Now the best way to know this clearly is to make sure she calls you a jerk while she's laughing. If you never hear the word "jerk" that means she says it to her friends about you and that's not good (that means you are a little to harsh, an asshole if you will). All my women friends call me a jerk (including my wife) or they'll say something like "you're so mean."

Of course I'm mean, it's the only way to stay out of your friends list. You have to get them to be nice about it, like "you're such a jerk, why would you say that to me," all while they are enjoying your humor thinking to themselves, I can't believe he said that. He had to "balls" to say that, say it cool, and confident. I might light him, in fact I DO (at the altar).

If you're not hearing "you jerk," careful you may be in the dreaded friends column. And we know what that's like. Here her complain to you about guys like me...haha.

Later,

Chris B.

PS: I know I'm a jerk...

Dating Good Looking Women

Now just to set records; I do not condone nor teach men how to be whore mongers, male "sluts", or womanizers. It just so happens that with the tools I give and teach; a corroded mind or one with evil intentions can do that. If I give a man a hammer to build a house; and he goes and clunks someone in the head - I may have indirectly aided in that; however I gave him the tool to build a house.

I give you the tool of dating beautiful women to build a house; a family if you will. How is that? If you know how to date women easily, you will be able to date as many as you like. While you are dating all these women (while other guys are wondering how the heck you are doing this); you will get to see what you like in a woman, the personalities you are attracted to, and more importantly you'll have a large number to you disposal.

This means you being a man should have an agenda and your agenda has to be agreed on by the women you choose (ultimately to wife) or they need to find someone else. So in essence; I'm teaching men to be men and to stop giving all their power to a woman (physically, mentally, and spiritually).

Dating good looking women is a skill set that has much to do with confidence as a whole rather than just being a whore monger or womanizer. Do not date women just to sleep with them (and I know this goes against the grain of everything in the world). But don't do that because the penalty for it is deeper than you think.

I just wanted to set the record straight so no one thinks that I am helping men be whore mongers and womanizers.

Thanks,

Chris Bondae

How a Bald Guy w/a Gut get Model Chicks

I know; I know you have no chance with super models. Well, if you tell yourself that you've already defeated yourself and get use to sleeping with your teddy bear for a few more months.

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Get the Chick

Fat, bald, and ugly but with confidence will beat, athletic, stylish full head of hair, good looking, but with no confidence.

So if you are bald, fat, and uglier than a 3 eyed, 3 headed alien, then you better adhere to the rules of taking the attention off of your physical appearance and put it on your demeanor. We all enjoy comedians because they keep us laughing.

So if you can keep a woman smiling or laughing she will enjoy hanging around you or being around you. If you display a bit of arrogance (not to much) but enough for her to say, this guy is too cocky, no you get her away from looking at your gut, or bald spot, even your raggedy teeth.

(Doesn't matter if you look like them)

I have this saying, where you treat ALL women like your little sisters or daughters. Women love to be taken cared of and you can't do that financially at the beginning or you'll end up getting milked. So the way to take care of them in to always be in charge.

It takes a confident man to be in charge, regardless if he is ugly, fat, or bald.

See ya next time on

Dating beautiful women........

Chris B.

Get in & Get OUT!

Now most perverted minds think I'm talking something else here; but I'm not even there my friend. What I mean by get in and get out is when you meet a woman you should get in and when you have attained a level one goal (such get her number, email), you should vacate.

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Why?

---------When you meet someone; you become new, a mystery if you like and that is exciting to women especially. And if you didn't approach her with a big wet juicy smile showing off all of your teeth, and she was pretty good looking - you probably became an even bigger mystery.

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So, if you want to end up like my main man Mike Jordan in the picture above, with a couple hot women on your arms (this was at Mike's product launch party and does not represent his lifestyle), then you will get in and get out. So for instance; you see a gorgeous lady waiting for a cab and you approach her and tell her something like, "help me catch a cab ASAP."

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---------> Now she is probably looking at you like "why" or "jerk" and you proceed into convo (conversation). Make it humorous and confident; and then you grab her email. Now the cab waiting process will make you stand there for a few extra minutes; but that doesn't help your chances with this gorgeous lady. So what you do is dip off the scene (meaning leave the area -you weren't catching a cab anyway), and tell her later.

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-----> She may wonder why you didn't wait for a cab; tell her it's taking to long and I don't have time to waste...and proceed up the block, around the corner, just out of her vision. That makes you a bigger mystery. We all love mystery stories; especially women. So next time you're jawing up with a breezy (hot chick), get in and get out.

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Stop all that Smiling!

Beautiful women get smiled at tons and tons of times per day. Every wack dude says hello, with a big ole smile on his face - she simply looks at him like a sales rep looks at a customer who is just looking.

You can't join in to what everyone is doing when it comes to good looking women. You have to be subtle and different. Instead of a big ole cheeseburger smile; just flash small smirk...or give her a look like she just stole something from you...

This throws them off - and there is no better chance at dating a gorgeous woman than when you throw her off. But you must stop with the super big smiles - and the "how are you doings" - and the hold the door open - and so on and so on. They expect that from boring losers.

Now to be clear I don't teach guys how to sleep with beautiful women; I teach you how to date them; how to get them to want to date you; how to get them to call you, etc. The first thing you have to cut out is all the big smiling.

Talk to you later


the smooth dude

"The Ten Most Dangerous Dating Mistakes"

Here Are The Top Ten Reasons Why Men Fail With
Women And How To Make Sure YOU Avoid Every One Of
These Deadly Common Mistakes...

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much of A "Nice" Guy

Have you ever noticed that the really
attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice"
guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive
female friends that always seemed to date
"jerks"... but for some reason they were never
romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually very simple...

Women don't base their choices of men on how
"nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do
because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION
for them.

And guess what?

Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that
powerful ATTRACTION.

And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.

I realize that this doesn't make a lot of
logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET
OVER IT.

Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on
it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that
you want.

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MISTAKE #2: Trying To "Convince" Her To Like You

What do most guys do when they meet a woman
that they REALLY like... but she's just not
interested?

Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel
differently.

Well, I have news for you... YOU WILL NEVER
CHANGE HOW A WOMAN "FEELS" WHEN IT COMES TO
ATTRACTION!

Never, ever, EVER.

You cannot CONVINCE a woman to feel differently
about you with "logic and reasoning".

Think about it.

If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in
the world do you expect to change that FEELING by
being "reasonable" with her?

But we all do it.

When a woman just isn't interested, we beg,
plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.

Bad idea. One that will never work.

MISTAKE #3: Looking To Her For Approval Or
Permission

In our desire to please women (which we
mistakenly think will make them like us), us guys
are always doing things to get a woman's
"approval" or "permission".

Another HORRIBLE idea.

Women are NEVER attracted to the types of men
who kiss up to them... EVER.

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Attraction = Done Deal

The age old story is that men like dating beautiful women. When men get married they called their wife the most beautiful woman in the world (some have a case, some are just plain ole delusional).



But before you can get married you have to meet the woman. Then get to know her, then get to knnnoooowwww her :) then learn about her; then marry her.



So with all these steps; men have been taught over the years to get nervous and buy her attention (just because rich kings in the past spent money on women, and rich dudes do today). However none of that is really necessary, and I'm living proof. I didn't buy my wife flowers until we were 6 years into our relationship. Our fine dining starting at fast food joints.

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I'm not cheap; at the time I was broke. So I learned that it's not about my wallet size - it's about creating attraction. Once attraction is there you don't really have to try anymore.



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